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How To Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love by Logan Ury.

Logan studied psychology at Harvard, ran Google’s behavioral science team, and now works at the dating app Hinge and as a dating coach.

Logan Ury ( is the author of How To Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love.

“It’s not going to feel as intense as it did in the beginning and what you need to do is find someone great, commit to them, and understand that being in love doesn’t feel the same as falling in love” – Logan Ury.

Falling in love is an intense positive feeling whereas being in love is more of a low but sustainable positive emotion.

There’s a big difference between falling in love and being in love.

Ability to make hard decisions together: you want a teammate who you can trust and work well with.

Growth mindset: someone who believes they can grow their skills through effort.

Loyalty: someone who has existing long term friendships.

Emotional stability: someone who doesn’t overreact in tough situations.

Traits you should look for in a longterm partner:.“Create a rule of thumb that you always go on a second date unless something really dramatic and bad happens on the first date” – Logan Ury.“Way too often people are rejecting partners that could be potentially great matches long term because they didn’t feel this instant spark” – Logan Ury.Oftentimes it takes time to develop that chemistry. It’s okay if you go on a first date and don’t feel the “spark” or instant chemistry.“Finding somebody is challenging, but that’s not where the hard work ends” – Logan Ury.The hard work of love isn’t just finding someone, there’s making it work, keeping the love alive, and navigating the ups and downs of a relationship.

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